Rules & Requirements

We’re thrilled to share our special day with you! To help everything go smoothly, please take a moment to review and follow these guidelines:

Invitation Policy

Attendance is by explicit invitation only. Unless you’ve received a personal invitation directly from the Bride or Groom (Shaylyn or Elijah), we kindly ask that you refrain from attending. If you were given a direct link to our RSVP form by us, you’re officially invited!

RSVP Link Confidentiality

Please keep the RSVP link private and do not share it with others unless specifically asked by Shaylyn or Elijah. This helps us preserve the intimate nature of our celebration.

Completing the RSVP

We’d greatly appreciate it if you could fill out the RSVP form completely. This helps us plan the day effectively and ensure everyone is accounted for.

Dress Code

Our wedding vibe is "wedding casual"—think comfortable yet elegant attire that’s perfect for a joyful celebration. Dress to enjoy the day with us!

Alcohol Policy

No alcohol will be served at the wedding, and we kindly request that guests do not bring any alcoholic beverages. We’re aiming for a refreshing, family-friendly atmosphere.

Religious Ceremony

Our wedding will be a Christian ceremony rooted in our faith. We ask all guests to respect the sacred nature of this event. If this makes you uncomfortable, we understand and invite you to reconsider attending.

Behavior Expectations

We look forward to a wedding celebration filled with joy, respect, and positivity. We kindly request that all guests refrain from using profanity or engaging in negative behavior. If honoring these values feels difficult, we respectfully ask that you reconsider joining us for this occasion.

Gifts & Blessings

Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for as we start this journey together! That said, if you’d like to share a small token of blessing—such as a card or modest gift—it’s a kind tradition we’d deeply appreciate as we begin our married life.

Meal Details

After the ceremony, we’re excited to share a delicious meal with you! Expect a tasty spread featuring pulled pork, a BBQ bar, assorted sides, and delightful desserts. Come hungry and ready to enjoy!

Questions?

If you have any questions or need clarification, feel free to reach out to us directly. We’re happy to help!

Thank you for respecting these guidelines and being part of our celebration. Your cooperation will make our day unforgettable for all the right reasons!